One Question - One Honest Answer Part 1

November 23/15

So here is the first batch of questions I've received. I'll add another posting later when I've had some more time to edit them.
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Question – Why do you blog?

Answer – Why not?  It’s a really cheap form of therapy and if hearing about my own mistakes or thoughts helps someone else than it’s all a bonus to me.

 

Question – Are you a righty or a lefty?

Answer – Think this one comes from the theory that creative people are usually left handed and writing a blog is somewhat creative. Sorry to disappoint anyone but I’m a total righty, though I did grow up ambidextrous J

 

Question – How important is sex to you?

Answer – As part of a relationship it’s very important, but in and of itself it’s not very important at all, I’ve actually gone long periods being celibate as I prefer to have a connection rather than just get my rocks off now and again.  That answer might cost me my man card but so be it.

 

Question – What is the greatest thing you’ve ever done?

Answer – Still doing it every single day as I’m a parent to two pretty awesome kids.

 

Question – You said you don’t use full names but you recently did so in regards to your golf lessons

Answer – True but I don’t share the names of the people who I have relationships with as they deserve their privacy whereas my golf instructor makes his living by having his name passed around so he can continue to build his client base. In my mind that makes it OK to share his name as he was pretty awesome and deserves the increased business.

 

Question – Where is the strangest place you’ve had sex?

Answer – 18^th green at Torrey Pines South course at my cousins wedding reception with a bridesmaid.  I was eighteen and was more scared about getting caught than anything else lol

 

Question – If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?

Answer – My weight as that is where a lot of my insecurities come from and it impacts how I deal with other people, usually negatively like with my recent interactions with C

 

Question – What is the one thing you notice right away about a woman?

Answer – Her eyes!!!  I’m a complete sucker for a woman with a twinkle in her eyes. That is the first thing I noticed about C and then her smile.

 

Question – You’ve blogged about living down in San Diego and now reside in Ottawa, what made you move?

Answer – The usual story, boy meets girl, boy likes girl, girl likes boy, boy moves 3K miles to be with her. Love plain and simple.

 

Question – Do you really golf as much as you claim?

Answer – Yes, but not as much as I’d like to golf. Given my relationship status I’m sure to golf even more next season since I won’t be driving up the valley.

 

Question - What is your preferred sexual position?

Answer – Slight blush developing now lol  Spooning or cowgirl rate right up there with me as I’m hands on lol

 

Question - When did you lose your virginity?

Answer – I was sixteen and think it happened too early and wished I’d waited a bit

 

Question – Ever had a threesome?

Answer – No, but I’ve had two opportunities and declined both. I’m more a one on one kind of guy and don’t share well with others.