Wednesday, March 20, 2013

2011-07-15 More POF Observations

Today's musical recommendation - "Breakeven" by The Script


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First off........TGIF Been a long week and I'm so looking forward to some R&R

Couple of observations about things I've noticed on POF lately.



I was looking at some profiles this morning as I'm want to do when I should be busy working but it is what it is.......I hate that saying but do appreciate the truth behind it :)......when I came across one that had gifts listed and I took this to mean this lady had received gifts from some fish on the pond. Now I don't think there is anything wrong with getting a gift from someone you know but what I saw kind of made me do a double take......a thong......are you freaking kidding me???..........what kind of person sends such an intimate item to someone electronically that they may or may not even really know all that well.....and how did she feel getting it?........I've gotten ice cream on a hot day and found that cute and it made me smile but if some guy, hoping it was a guy who sent it lol, you'd never met sent you such a gift what would you say or how would you feel?


Now maybe this is just me feeling my age lately but I actually felt like I needed shower....as if I'd someone walked into the middle of something I wasn't supposed to see and it left me feeling dirty......


Now here is something I just noticed recently......people send me messages after reading a posting and yet when I check out the "Viewed Me" section they don't appear on it. Why do so many people keep it hidden that they've viewed another person's profile?? Maybe you find something about them that you like but don't think the feeling would be reciprocated.......give them the chance to decide for themselves and you just might be happily surprised :)


I've gotten more emails about the lack of any posted pictures than I ever imagined possible. My position on this hasn't changed as I'm still unsure of my intent in regards to dating. Do I enjoy being alone? Not really but I also won't just settle for less than I deserve or desire just to have a warm body next to me in the morning. Would I like to meet someone? Uh Yes!......but with it comes the opportunity to get hurt and honestly how much pain must one endure to find the one........I know I'll eventually give in and either post pictures on this profile or create one separate from this one that allows me to keep blogging and allow the world to see my mug :)


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